[thedean786]

How about "you're too good for me"? Got that about 2 weeks ago...talk about a mind fuck.

[Crimson92]

that would be a first

[335rocket]

good point. Its just that I know these guys who go on first dates, wind up making out with the girl and what not and have the girl tell them how into them they are. I guess every girl is different. Afterall, this chick wasnt acting 100% interested even before we went out, even though she would IM everyday. I think its most likely her. We'll see. She did talk about how she hasnt gone out with anyone since her last relationship which was 3 months ago, but who really knows. Time to play the "sweat game" and not make myself so available to her and see if shes interested enough to come after me

[JOSG328I]

Originally Posted by thedean786

How about "you're too good for me"? Got that about 2 weeks ago...talk about a mind fuck.

Thats when you mind fuck her back by saying "you know what you are right" peace out.

I did that once it can backfire though because the girl was kinda crazy and would not leave me alone.

[ArmyBimmerDude]

Originally Posted by 335rocket

Time to play the "sweat game" and not make myself so available to her and see if shes interested enough to come after me

I play those games too. Get's em everytime, atleast for me anyway.

Look, you have a crush on this chick which is cool. Just dont put too much thought into it. That way you arent so disappointed if she doesnt want to be with you. You went out on a date and you two were a little nervous. Happens. I'm going to go through the same thing in a week with a girl in GA. Shes 24 too, but she knows not to base anything off the first time we meet up.

[B Smooth]

haha, get out! she lives in Nassau?! WHere abouts in Nassau?! SHes doesnt have blone hair does she?! hahaha If you say yes, or tell me where she lives and its the same town, ill tell you how to handle it! haha

[F87LUV]

Originally Posted by darkcloud

just out of curiosity, but why are you looking for someone on match? You're a young guy just like most of us. You shouldn't have trouble meeting someone. I'm not trying to be an ass or anything just wondering.

I didnt read all the posts but im also 24 and if you work and are out of school... aside from your social circle which may be couples or just not be enough to meet a good candidate, you kind of need to entertain other options...

im kind of on the same boat... i have a match account- i have a good job, busy schedule, im not hideous, im into cars, having a good time but my friends friends really arent a good way to meet guys id be interested in so what can i do? wait for the pizza delivery guy to propose? its just another way to potentially meet someone.. thats all

[F87LUV]

Originally Posted by Neil

go to match.com and trade her in for a new one

btw that sig is disturbing

[Neil]

My mom used to tell me as a child, an apple a day keeps the doctor away. I'm just following her advice

[F87LUV]

Originally Posted by Neil

My mom used to tell me as a child, an apple a day keeps the doctor away. I'm just following her advice

I think I may have one of those

[B Smooth]

Originally Posted by ZGirl4U

I didnt read all the posts but im also 24 and if you work and are out of school... aside from your social circle which may be couples or just not be enough to meet a good candidate, you kind of need to entertain other options...

im kind of on the same boat... i have a match account- i have a good job, busy schedule, im not hideous, im into cars, having a good time but my friends friends really arent a good way to meet guys id be interested in so what can i do? wait for the pizza delivery guy to propose? its just another way to potentially meet someone.. thats all

So your 24, like cars, have a nice job...but what does "not hideous" mean? Im 24, like cars, have a nice job...Who needs match when you have the forums?! I was just in the city today for work...Talk about TERRIBLE traffic!

[samwoo2go]

shes digging for precious metal

[Design1314]

perhaps it's a guy

[mpimping]

she's probably a wacko... awkward pause means she wants sausage...

[down4it]

I dont think theres anything wrong with internet dating, There are nice normal people on there... But there are also crazy ass mofo's too!! I hate those types of girls that just like to talk over IM or text messaging, i bone out right when i see that cause i think the only reason they do it is because there is no emotion or anything other than words to transfer, people arent scared to say anything over a text message... I like real conversation, i mean how can you get to know someone over some words typed out on a screen??? Besides everyone makes up some fake facade on the net and then you meet them and they are completely different from how they put themselves to be on the internet... Tell the chick if she wants to communicate with you she can call you not message you!

[BMdblU]

I totally agree on the IM/texting points you guys made.. I dated a girl for 6 months who was a total text whore.. she was better at expressing her feelings over blackberry messenger then in person over dinner or such.. like wtf ? Aren't girls supposed to be the good talkers, and guys the silent ones who don't have much to say?

Either way, leave her be, be nice, but let her come to you. It will drive her wild and you'll be slammin her before you know it

[Cadillac Johnson]

Get one of these http://www.realdoll.com/intro.asp

MUCH easier to 'understand'

She's even into threesome's

[L~R~G nor cal]

Originally Posted by 335rocket

meet this girl on Match about 3 weeks ago. We exchange AIM addreses and we start communicating. Over the past 3 weeks, she IMs me just about everynight. Early last week, I ask her if shes free for the weekend (this weekend that just past). She says "not sure". The next day, once again she IMs me. I ask her again? , her response was the same "not sure". The next morning, she text messages me on my phone saying that saturday is good for her. We go out this past saturday. 3 1/2 hours together. Convo was ok. Didnt flow as smoothly as it should. There were times where there was "akward silence" but not for too long. She gives me a hug goodnight. Doesnt say she had a good time nor does she say "call me". I was left with the impression that it didnt go well. The next night (last night) she Ims me on AIM!!!!. Whats her deal?? She did in fact say during the date that she was procrastinating going out because she was in a relationship that ended only 2 months ago. So maybe shes not sure what shes doing? Date didnt seem to go well, but she IMs me the next day??????

Dude go take a college class at your local community college or something. Stop trying to pull girls off the internet. That should be in the contract of any BMW owner. No online dateing so other BMW owners arnt looked down at. Just take a couple of classes just for fun and spit at some girls. Try communication classes becuase u have to mingle with the people alot more than a history class.
good luck though.

[NaTuReB0Y]

pics or BAN!

[NoKids]

show us her picture,
and show us your picture

then tell us how much money she makes
and how much money you make

once i get this info, i'll be able to answer your question.

[mpimping]

Originally Posted by L~R~G nor cal

Dude go take a college class at your local community college or something. Stop trying to pull girls off the internet. That should be in the contract of any BMW owner. No online dateing so other BMW owners arnt looked down at. Just take a couple of classes just for fun and spit at some girls. Try communication classes becuase u have to mingle with the people alot more than a history class.
good luck though.

take a class at nyu or just go to clubs, bars, ect... Has anybody ever met a hot cool girl online that wasn't crazier than a normal girl? Go to a fashion forum and meet a hot chick and let me know what happened... Make sure she's a girl.

[B Smooth]

Originally Posted by NoKids

show us her picture,
and show us your picture

then tell us how much money she makes
and how much money you make

once i get this info, i'll be able to answer your question.