[BMWM3DREAM]

These people are the biggest idiots.

My dad is obsessed with money and considers me a liability

My mom dumb doesnt know anything about todays times

Brother asshole only cares about his wife, treated my like an ass called me a failure because i blame everyone else for my problems

Have had to deal with anxiety issues as well as depression and this is teh shit i get my dad, mom and brother are practically killing me and this is because i cant make any money right now because i have severe issues i dont kknow what else to write can anyone relate

Im in my mid twenties i know im considereed too old for this but i know people will try to hurt me even more

[DesiGUY]

love them back

[cougfan335]

No hate, but it would be a lot easier if I could. You seriously need to put some distance betwixt you and the afore mentioned awful family. Thats not really possible if you have no money though. Maybe eventually it will get bad enough that you'll get a job and GTFO, it'll be the best thing for you. I can relate though, my mom is bipolar and lies a lot and my Dad married a woman a dozen years younger than him and moved to Europe. FML, but at least we have fast cars and a lot of choices for self medicating.

[BMdblU]

I hope you're seeing a therapist or professional or some sort and not just coming to a public forum for help.

Your life is what you make it. Sink, or swim. Try taking a small step in the right direction, you might surprise them. You can even use those 'idiots' as motivation.

Judging by reading your related posts, it sounds like your in a viscous cycle of getting down on yourself, which in turn makes things worse. If you just isolate yourself and think about negative shit all day, that's exactly what you're gonna get. Start every day with one positive thought and focus on it. The conscious brain can only hold one thought at a time.

Not that this will make you feel better.. but, you drive a 335 that your parents were probably nice/foolish enough to buy for you. There are a few billion people in the world would kill to have the head start you have, do your best and try to take advantage.

[m2kev]

Similar situation brotha. Tearing me and my girlfriend apart right now.

[darkphantom]

Wow, I wish I could spill the beans, but both of my parents have really ticked me off as of late. My father with his mid-life crisis and my mother with "oh, help him out"

I just need to make some decent money and gtfo - my mom will cry about it, but w/e she needs to stop thinking i'm a kid...22 here

[MCMLXXXIX]

Originally Posted by darkphantom

Wow, I wish I could spill the beans, but both of my parents have really ticked me off as of late. My father with his mid-life crisis and my mother with "oh, help him out"

lol +1

[BMWM3DREAM]

Okay, at the time, I was in a very bad mood. In fact, my chest has been hurting ever since--I guess it is some tightness from stress. My grammar usage was poor, JNic. I don't mean to be cruel against to them but I feel I need their approval and feel slighted because they do not take me seriously enough or cannot comprehend my difficulties. I guess I'm in a bind and it will remain that way until some time. Trust me, I have been through many very tough situations with them that were really shocking.

[BMWM3DREAM]

I will stop drinking, hopefully, it just makes me feel as if I am opressed. I do not have a problem but sometimes rely on it to take me to another place as well as aid me in enlightening myself as to what has happened, what is happening and what will eventually happen if things stay the same. In closing, this thread was meant to be serious and I did not mean to fool around. This is a serious discussion and I have no intention of doing this to get attention.

[just4kickz]

life could be worse. work it out.

[themonotron]

I have been in a similar situation as you have, and the only way to break the "vicious cycle" is on your own. A therapist, psychologist, drugs, can assist you temporarily but it all comes down to how much you want to change yourself.

Also, as the previous poster has mentioned, half the world is starving and lacking clean water, and you're driving around California in a 335, you're better off than 95+ percent of the population. Just imagine how much worse of a situation you can be in. Good luck dude...

[BMWM3DREAM]

You can't put a price on health and peace of mind...but I understand what you mean about the 335i but it does not make it impossible for you to not feel miserable

[bmwmike335]

seems like everyone has family issues, but some are worse then others.
i wouldnt say i hate my parents but i do know that i am very different from them and i do have my own issues and just anticipating the day i can live by myself.
i guess just keep the train tuggin till u can live on ur own...

if somone does appreciate you and never will...fuck em dats what i say

[Sam12345]

Originally Posted by Bmoney2K4

These people are the biggest idiots.

My dad is obsessed with money and considers me a liability

My mom dumb doesnt know anything about todays times

Brother asshole only cares about his wife, treated my like an ass called me a failure because i blame everyone else for my problems

Have had to deal with anxiety issues as well as depression and this is teh shit i get my dad, mom and brother are practically killing me and this is because i cant make any money right now because i have severe issues i dont kknow what else to write can anyone relate

Im in my mid twenties i know im considereed too old for this but i know people will try to hurt me even more

Hey bro, i am very sorry to hear about your problems.
Honestly, everyone has problems with there familys...some more then otheres(such as yourself)

Best advice i can give is just try to deal with them and accept them, in the end of the day...they are your family.

Maybe try some family counseling with your parents and siblings. It will help improve things, just try to convince them to go with you

[Scorpion]

Nah, I love my family. Before I use to get upset at them but now, I guess I just changed.

As I see it your friends will come and go, but your family will always be there.

[number335]

I used to hate my family when i was young. I hated my sister, thought my mom treated me like i was a loser that just ate, slept and shit. I moved away to college and got a job and have done well for myself. Funny thing, the further away i got from my family, the closer we became. People see thing in a different light when they look back and reflect on how they used to treat their own flesh and blood. Although we all live in different states now, I feel that we are closer now than when I was growing up.

[ejazbmw]

i love my mom and my sisters but my dad gets on my last nerves, sometimes i feel like I'm gonna knock his ass down but i stop myself. But i find once i started to dorm I've been getting along with him a lot better. And it doesn't help my mom treats me like I'm 12 (I'm 20) but I'm all she has my sisters aren't home anymore so i just deal with it....

[Ravioli]

Bmoney2k4, you ever had a job? Who the heck bought your car? Did you live in a bad neighbourhood or something?

[ianthegreat]

The absolute best decision you can make is getting out of the house..

My therapy was moving away from home, getting my own student loans, going to college, making good grades, and getting a job.. now that i'm away i'm much closer to them all. Would your parents will help you with money?

[TiAg335i]

I would suggest...

1. Finding a job
2. Getting a girl
3. Hanging out with friends more often

I think if you can do all 3 of those you're life will shift from the family drama to being preoccupied with other things you will enjoy.

Thankfully I have no problems with my immediately family members. We get along great.

[addy85]

Nope.

[wj4]

With your history of posts, you need serious help. You're lucky that the members on this board aren't that mean like on other boards and some are aware of your condition, otherwise...well I'm not even going to say it.