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      01-16-2011, 03:02 AM   #1
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If you saw your best friend wife with another guy at the movie one night. Would you call your friend or approach your best friend wife?
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      01-16-2011, 03:06 AM   #2
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neither, that's none of my business
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depends on you're definition of best friend, if he is like a brother I would, just a good friend I wouldnt step in the middle
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neither, that's none of my business
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plus, you'll look like the bad guy to at least one party
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Of course I would tell my friend...it would be fucked up not to.
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Of course I would tell my friend...it would be fucked up not to.
a million different things could be going on in their relationship. i hate to be 'that guy', but you never know what you could be messing up
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      01-16-2011, 03:44 AM   #7
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there making a movie on this
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May be they are in an "open" marriage/ relationship.
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neither, that's none of my business
what? If your best friend saw your girl at a movie with another guy you wouldn't want him to tell you?

You dont have to be a dick about it. Just casually say it. He might say "oh yah that's her brother" or he might say "that fuckin whore said she was sick at home."

I would want my friends to tell me.

Guy code cmon!
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Watch the movie "The Dilemma" it's a perfect example, but if we we're best friends I would probably tell him or bring it up like " Oh hey I saw your wife the other night."
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what? If your best friend saw your girl at a movie with another guy you wouldn't want him to tell you?

You dont have to be a dick about it. Just casually say it. He might say "oh yah that's her brother" or he might say "that fuckin whore said she was sick at home."

I would want my friends to tell me.

Guy code cmon!
if you guys legitimately think 'cheating' right off the bat from seeing your friend's girl at the movies with a guy, then lol
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if you guys legitimately think 'cheating' right off the bat from seeing your friend's girl at the movies with a guy, then lol
you never know dude. It's one of those situations where you expect the worst but hope for the best
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you never know dude. It's one of those situations where you expect the worst but hope for the best
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a million different things could be going on in their relationship. i hate to be 'that guy', but you never know what you could be messing up
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Wif we we're best friends I would probably tell him or bring it up like " Oh hey I saw your wife the other night."
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or you could be the first warning sign and not let things turn into a bigger problem.

That's why its best to tell your friend in a respectful type of way and have him decide what he wants to do.
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i think mentioning something like that out of the blue would do more harm than good, that's just me i guess
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If you saw your best friend wife with another guy at the movie one night. Would you call your friend or approach your best friend wife?
Did she see you? Do you have proof? I would tell him. You could lose your friend though. Some people go into denial mode even when they see proof.
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if we were really close and true friends and otherwise told each other everything about our lives i would definitely 100% tell him that I saw his wife with another man...i wouldn't be a friend if i didn't...being friends means that you are always there for each other no matter what, you are kind of like his second pair of eyes...and this is one of those cases where you should speak up
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if we were really close and true friends and otherwise told each other everything about our lives i would definitely 100% tell him that I saw his wife with another man...i wouldn't be a friend if i didn't...being friends means that you are always there for each other no matter what, you are kind of like his second pair of eyes...and this is one of those cases where you should speak up
this. true talk.
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There are three sides to every story. Your friends side, his wife's, and the truth. You have no idea what is going on in the marriage behind doors. No, nothing justifies cheating but best to stay out of it.
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This is crazy talk. Of course you tell him.

I would also make sure that she saw me to fuck up her date for the evening.
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