[MCMLXXXIX]

Originally Posted by JB135i

Guys through the ages have faked interest/belief in alot of things through the years to get/keep a chick, why is this any different LOL?

For example, my wife likes gardening, so I do too. Not that I dislike our yard, and it actually is very impressive with what she has done to it. But is it MY passion, nope, but she is, so it all works out well.

So it sounds like you need to start "getting it (astrology)", pun intended.

youre right, we do fake things at times just like you say about gardening, and thats whats keeping it together. its not a lie...its respect and love

Originally Posted by UncleWede

Listens to what she says, the details. Being Virgo with a Leo isn't enough of an explanation. But if you start listening, check a few web sites on teh details she tells/told you about, then show some level of comprehension, you MAY win over her obstacles that she sees.
IF she has given you details more specific than you are Virgo, but Virgo with moon decendant (etc.) you need to understand what she is saying, then demonstrate the opposite of what that reading may indicate.
But I really think, like was said about the garden above, is the real detail she is testing you on. Can you show some interest in something that interests her???

i have always listened to her, ive always respected every word coming out of her mouth. she is a pisces. virgo is the opposite and she sees what she reads, "astrological hell". i cant talk to her about it because well 1. we havent talked in months, and 2. itll just piss her off and have her arguing again. like i said before, our relationship was extremely rocky, and it was because of how I was, not how we were together. she doesnt see it that way, no matter how ive explained it. it goes on and on that im just getting sick of this astrology business

Originally Posted by kyleb350

A bunch of those horoscopes are very generalized (like Jeep Jeep posted prior). I have yet to be freaked out because of a horoscope being so "dead on". I believe it's more for entertainment than anything.

On the other hand, I tend to always find myself with younger Scorpios and older Taurus women... (not at the same time)

yea they are generalized. they cant pin-point the details of what makes one virgo diff from another, or any other sign. these little details change who people are and differentiate one from another. and hell, those love matches dont mention ONE BIT of LOVE. they match you up on general characteristics of your sign.

for example, virgo is clean and neat...pisces is usually messy...."together there may be some conflict"...thats pure bullshit. to JB135i's post...THATS whats missing, that works

i should write a book lol

[scorcherjf]

You actually use zodiac signs as a serious measure of compatibility...?

[Mu Mu]

Ive dated Scorpios mostly, and the funny thing is my mother is a Scorpio as well. I dont think it has anything to so with star signs...just certain characteristics that attracts me to them . Oh, and Im a Virgo by the way. Just sayin....

[MCMLXXXIX]

Originally Posted by UncleWede

Listens to what she says, the details. Being Virgo with a Leo isn't enough of an explanation. But if you start listening, check a few web sites on teh details she tells/told you about, then show some level of comprehension, you MAY win over her obstacles that she sees.
IF she has given you details more specific than you are Virgo, but Virgo with moon decendant (etc.) you need to understand what she is saying, then demonstrate the opposite of what that reading may indicate.
But I really think, like was said about the garden above, is the real detail she is testing you on. Can you show some interest in something that interests her???

oh yea i also want to add to my previous response that i have shown interest in astrology with her. i would sit there and research it, send her things, and where we found faults, wed discuss it and how it relates to us individually and together. she loved it, i didnt...but i still took interest. but as time went on and the "fake" relationship went on...her views took over

Originally Posted by scorcherjf

You actually use zodiac signs as a serious measure of compatibility...?

i dont, as you can see...i find it b.s., partially true but not to determine your romantic destiny. some people do tho, and its heartbreaking. for anyone who has to deal with it

characteristics play a part. but not to this extent.

[scorcherjf]

Originally Posted by MCMLXXXIX

i dont, as you can see...i find it b.s., partially true but not to determine your romantic destiny. some people do tho, and its heartbreaking. for anyone who has to deal with it

characteristics play a part. but not to this extent.

Ah ok, I just reread your first post. It stinks that you got stabbed in the heart, but if she is insistent on using zodiac signs as a way to determine the outcome of relationships, I'd be happy to be rid of her...

[kyleb350]

Originally Posted by Mu Mu

Ive dated Scorpios mostly, and the funny thing is my mother is a Scorpio as well. I dont think it has anything to so with star signs...just certain characteristics that attracts me to them .

lol, me too. I chalk it up to pure coincidence though.

[lyndon_h]

I dont' believe in the Zodiac crapola, but i always seem to date Cancers (and the stereotype is true).

[MCMLXXXIX]

Originally Posted by scorcherjf

Ah ok, I just reread your first post. It stinks that you got stabbed in the heart, but if she is insistent on using zodiac signs as a way to determine the outcome of relationships, I'd be happy to be rid of her...

i wish it was that easy, or if i wanted that



when you guys say youve dated a lot of scorpios or cancers, are those what are supposedly your matches? i know that Mu Mu says hes attracted to them

[UncleWede]

It begins to sound like, regardless of signs involved, you two just aren't compatible. It does happen where one is more attracted than the other but the couple really isn't.

When I got divorced, it seemed like the end of the world. But without that, I'd have never met my current wife, and my son never would have been born . . .

[MCMLXXXIX]

i dont know what to say to that. we are both very passionate and were inseparable at a time. it died. ive decided to disconnect myself from her completely...i need this summer for myself. one day out and i already feel less tension, but just this topics been bugging the hell out of me

[solefald]

Originally Posted by MCMLXXXIX

i wish it was that easy, or if i wanted that



when you guys say youve dated a lot of scorpios or cancers, are those what are supposedly your matches? i know that Mu Mu says hes attracted to them

I am a Cancer. My ex-wife is a Scorpio. Supposedly these 2 are the most compatible. You can guess the outcome of that "compatibility".

And seems to me that your girl has already decided that you are not compatible, so no amount of things you do or words you say would change her mind. I'd say NEXT!

[MCMLXXXIX]

Originally Posted by solefald

I am a Cancer. My ex-wife is a Scorpio. Supposedly these 2 are the most compatible. You can guess the outcome of that "compatibility".

And seems to me that your girl has already decided that you are not compatible, so no amount of things you do or words you say would change her mind. I'd say NEXT!

seems that youre right
theres always been hope within me...ive just felt like one day shell notice things arent what they were. i still find it hard to let that all go, but i guess it has to be done

[BigDog]

fwiw, indian culture strongly believes in all this horoscope stuff... apparently your time, date, location, and name all play a major role in finding suitability of spouse... does it work? who knows, but they do seem to have one of the lowest divorce rates in the world.... flip side is they may not divorce because of the taboo behind it.... just some food for thought

[Templar]

Originally Posted by BigDog

fwiw, indian culture strongly believes in all this horoscope stuff... apparently your time, date, location, and name all play a major role in finding suitability of spouse... does it work? who knows, but they do seem to have one of the lowest divorce rates in the world.... flip side is they may not divorce because of the taboo behind it.... just some food for thought

Guys, seriously...

Look at the dates on these posts... The spambot is bumping 2-3 year old threads and you're all following along...

I've reported the thing like three times and nothing. Day off or something?

[MCMLXXXIX]

LOL oh god why