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11-10-2010, 06:01 PM | #26 |
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ask yourself if you can deal with a huge fight and breaking her heart. if you can, just say i love you back and see what happens...
oh yeah, be sure to keep on pulling out until you know for a fact you are in love with her yourself.
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11-10-2010, 06:34 PM | #29 |
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+1 piitb
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11-10-2010, 07:36 PM | #32 |
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Even if you DO love her, telling it to her would be like shooting yourself in the foot, 'cos then you'd become less of a challenge instantly and she'll start losing attraction for you slowly. And since you aren't even sure if you love her, don't bother saying anything. Just continue dating her. Relaying your feelings for her TO her is not going to make her any more drawn into you; it has the opposite effect.
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I'm afraid you've heard wrong there. Saying "I Love You" does not make you a wuss. In fact, it's the opposite. Not saying it means you are, however.
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Hmmm...let me first say that although people can fall in (and out of) love quickly, I would kinda bug me if she says ILY so soon. Then again if it's been months then it's fine. As for you, if you don't feel it then you shouldn't have to say it. Just tell her something like "look, thank you for telling me how you feel about me. I really appreciate it. However, I'm not sure if I'm ready to reciprocate the same way. I mean I really like you. I just don't want to toss that word around without really meaning it. I want it to really mean something when I tell it to you."
You could also tell her how you've "blurted" it out before and regretted it. Remember though that she's probably gonna question that too so go with your guts whether to share that or not. This kind of reminds me of this one girl I was with. She told me pretty much what I said above. I didn't understand it at the time. However, one night after sex she hugged me and whispered in my ear "ILU". Let me just say that she was right. |
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the whole being affectionate makes you a bitch line of thought is bullshit. if its meant to be then nothings gonna change that. tell your girl you love her if you do and she'll love that you can express your feelings to her even if your a hard ass to everyone else. no homo
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