how to tell someone that you like her

ironic · 12-16-2006, 01:28 PM

lol relax first, and don't worry so much about fscking it up

ask her to lunch sometime

Heidelberg328i · 12-16-2006, 01:56 PM

Don't beat about the bush if you really want to be with her.

Ask her flat out.............

................... "Are you into group sex and anal???"

calvino · 12-16-2006, 02:08 PM

thanks Ninjaneer clear and simple

yea I not going to worry that much about it, I going to ask her out, alone off coarse, because we have been out but is always w a group

Heidelberg

I don't think that works out, at least not in the US probably over there in Europe

KennyVendetta · 12-16-2006, 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by BMWE90

Kinda hard to take your advice seriously with that sig. of yours.

This is off-topic but I will respond. I cannot speculate to what your statement means...I don't see my words as incongruent with my signature. But if you are offended I will change it.

Heidelberg328i · 12-16-2006, 02:37 PM

Kenny,
I think he means your signature by seeing the hot chick in yellow/orange bikini "bouncing" fingers back off her boobs.

In other words, he thinks your advice would get his face smacked...

...but not half as bad as the advice I gave him a couple posts up...LOL!

Backattack · 12-16-2006, 02:45 PM

The next time you see her bring flowers, and then do the hyminlich manuver.

Heidelberg328i · 12-16-2006, 03:02 PM

calvino · 12-16-2006, 03:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Backattack

The next time you see her bring flowers, and then do the hyminlich manuver.

Poderes1 · 12-16-2006, 03:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by calvino

Hey Calvino!!! Come to the Hot Import Nights meet tonight and i will give you a couple of pointers.

yellowg555 · 12-16-2006, 04:41 PM

Stay away from the friend zone!! Once you get trapped in the friend zone, there's no going back. Think of it as the Bermuda Triangle for relationships lol.

TommyBahama · 12-16-2006, 04:48 PM

nice shoes wanna fuck?

wanna play pearl harbor? i'll be US you be Japan, let me lay down then you blow me away.

dont make me masturbait to your picture again, help a brother out.

pic your favorite, any of them will do.

BMW F22 · 12-16-2006, 05:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KennyVendetta

This is off-topic but I will respond. I cannot speculate to what your statement means...I don't see my words as incongruent with my signature. But if you are offended I will change it.

no no. U misunderstood me. I meant that your advice is good. But then you look at your signature and it's like '

'.

ck1129 · 12-16-2006, 07:40 PM

Just grab her tits, and say "I would love to grab these every day"

dickster · 12-16-2006, 09:04 PM

Calvino:

Obviously many of these guys have been breathing too many Zaino fumes...

Your posts indicate you are not American and are aware you may have some troubles with our language. This is you golden opportunity.

If this young lady has a command of the English language, ask her for some help. Write a letter, build a resumé, work on a school project -- whatever. Then ask for her help in editing it so that it reads properly. Few women (and, I might add, few men) can resist the chance to change someone else's words.

This will open the door for you to tell her more about yourself and ask for more information about her. A simple one-on-one coversation over lunch, coffee, a drink or whatever will give you the confidence to speak with her without the threat of having to 'impress' her. Just be yourself, be honest with her and, above all, relax.

This isn't brain surgery and remember: we've all been in a similar position at some point of our lives. When my wife asked me to marry her MANY years ago, I was so flustered all I could stammer was: "You're WHAT?" We've been together for 38 years.

BlueLion · 12-16-2006, 09:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Brunotheboxer

just be yourself and tell her how you feel. sometimes a glass of wine can help you do this.

mmmmmm i love wine.....but tequila is faster

BlueLion · 12-16-2006, 09:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ksfrogman

She already likes you, and wants to spend time with you. Do you have to place a label on your friendship yet? Be yourself, be genuine, and it wil come on its own naturally.

best advice so far....

you know she likes you already.....so your more than half way....this is usually the hardest part...well for me anyway......but yeah take her out 1 on 1....skip the group activity....and don't, and i mean don't, by any means end up in the friend zone......flirt, dance with her, hug take pics whatever, just don't disrespect her....she will give you that "kiss me moment", don't miss it....the sooner you kiss the quicker she will get the message

kingbriani · 12-16-2006, 09:26 PM

i dont know what your ethnic makeup is but i had a chinese friend who would ask girls "do you have chinese in you?" and when they said no he'd say "well do you want some?" haha, and if you lay on the accent heavy enough sometimes you wont get slapped.

ALPINE6SPD · 12-17-2006, 07:19 AM

treat her like shit and ignore her she will want you more
j/k man Just ask her out and talk to her

calvino · 12-17-2006, 01:37 PM

guys thank you, however one of my friends send me a ebook call double your dating 2nd edition and is WOW is really good I was like 5 hours reading it yesterday, is not like a regular book but it see woman in a different way it as change my way of think.
there were some quotes that I think are going to help me a lot:

"I can do something if I choose to"

"the only power any woman has in
your life is THAT WHICH YOU GIVE HER"

"Don’t let ANYTHING stop you from reaching the level
of success you deserve."

"THIS IS MY
REALITY, AND SHE IS A GUEST" – not the other way
around.

nice book it sees woman and relationship from a psychological point of view ( my mayor is psychology,that's is why I found this book great)
I think is the best piece of info that a friend have give me in my entire life.

you guys have to check it out.

thanks for all the comments and suggestions there are been really helpful

I know I can always count on my e90post friends

Scarabeo · 12-17-2006, 02:56 PM

You can chuck that book right out the window....men have been trying to understand women since the dawn of time and I doubt this guy has the magic elixir...I really loved this little nugget: "the only power any woman has in your life is THAT WHICH YOU GIVE HER"...hahaha, apparently this guy has never been in a relationship for more than a one night stand.....

Quote:

Originally Posted by calvino

guys thank you, however one of my friends send me a ebook call double your dating 2nd edition and is WOW is really good I was like 5 hours reading it yesterday, is not like a regular book but it see woman in a different way it as change my way of think.
there were some quotes that I think are going to help me a lot:

"I can do something if I choose to"

"the only power any woman has in
your life is THAT WHICH YOU GIVE HER"

"Don’t let ANYTHING stop you from reaching the level
of success you deserve."

"THIS IS MY
REALITY, AND SHE IS A GUEST" – not the other way
around.

nice book it sees woman and relationship from a psychological point of view ( my mayor is psychology,that's is why I found this book great)
I think is the best piece of info that a friend have give me in my entire life.

you guys have to check it out.

thanks for all the comments and suggestions there are been really helpful

I know I can always count on my e90post friends

Ninjaneer · 12-17-2006, 04:40 PM

Ditch the book and just act - no, be - normal.

How about this: The only power a book has in your life is that which you give it

calvino · 12-17-2006, 05:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scarabeo

hahaha, apparently this guy has never been in a relationship for more than a one night stand.....

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