Single or relationship?

Brey335i · 09-27-2011, 01:02 AM

Single. Definitely single

Uber V8 · 09-27-2011, 03:04 AM

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Originally Posted by RedBarron

I have been dating my current girlfriend for almost 2 years. I love her very much! Although we rarely see each other. We live in separate towns and see each other maybe once a month, it's a hard thing to do but at the same time you have to want the to be in relationship a lot. She is a senior in undergrad and total sorostitute and the mascot for her school and I am in grad school she is always very busy and has little time to do things which makes it very hard. And you guys saying having a girlfriend you get constant vag, this is a total misconception, from my experiences the longer you date someone the less you get unfortunately.

Bold explains why minimal vag sessions.

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Originally Posted by philthy84

Anyone care to offer up some advice on good places to meet single women other then bars/clubs since I rarely have a chance to go to those type of establishments other then special occasions.

Honestly bro, if you ever get a chance visit Brazil. The women there have a completely different mindset and treat you like you are a fkng BOSS. Some of the best ways to meet (decent) girls are through mutual friends though. Network.

Javi335 · 09-27-2011, 05:33 AM

To be or not be?

There is life after death?

What will the FED do?

Single or relationships?

I dont about the first, but this a song wich explains very well one of those eternal dilemmas

It's because a female
I'm going crazy.
I can not live without it,
but with it either.

And if this broken heart
left to the grave,
do not send me my flowers,
as this rumba says :

(chorus)

I wanted to cut the flower
earliest of the rose,
thinking because of love
I could not be pinch,
and as I poked
taught me one thing
a rose is a rose is a rose

And when I opened the hand
and dropped it
bleeding broken
my skin sores
and its petals
carefully cured me

a rose is a rose is a rose ...

But the more I heal,
after a bit more hurts me,
because love is the start
of the word bitterness.

A lie and a creed
for every thorn on the stem,
be grafted onto the fingers
a rose is a rosary.

silvergray545 · 09-27-2011, 12:53 PM

I'm more of a relationship type person but girls in my age range are not. I'm 22 so girls that are younger than me are still very immature. Dating an older girl is near impossible because most of them have something I don't...a career. So that's why I'm still single. I'll just keep doing what every other single person is doing. But I swear if another little college slut falls in love with me and goes psycho, I'm gonna lose it. Shit is getting real annoying.

Wolf · 09-27-2011, 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by silvergray545

I'm more of a relationship type person but girls in my age range are not. I'm 22 so girls that are younger than me are still very immature. Dating an older girl is near impossible because most of them have something I don't...a career. So that's why I'm still single. I'll just keep doing what every other single person is doing. But I swear if another little college slut falls in love with me and goes psycho, I'm gonna lose it. Shit is getting real annoying.

that's pretty much what is happening to me... I'm also 22 and find having relationship with girls my age or smaller is just not worth it. I find myself attracted to 24-26 year old girls but I don't act on it. graduating in 3 months

OC Guy · 09-27-2011, 04:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Because us girls dont want the nice guys. We want the challenge and when were old enough we realize we messed up and they are taken by then.

A lot of this is ego. As you get older, the ego usually subsides a bit.

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Single and probably for a long time. Every guy Ive tried to date recently has smothered me. Cant they just understand I want my space too. I pray I find a guy who wants his time with his boys so I can have my time with my girls and not be clingy or smother me.

Lot of weak guys are threatened by strong women. I don't mind at all. I think it's attractive. Confidence issues. But at the same time, it's a bit give and take. I don't know your exact situation so I can't really comment. Just saying you can't have your cake and eat it too.

Sara · 09-27-2011, 06:55 PM

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Originally Posted by OC 335i

A lot of this is ego. As you get older, the ego usually subsides a bit.

Lot of weak guys are threatened by strong women. I don't mind at all. I think it's attractive. Confidence issues. But at the same time, it's a bit give and take. I don't know your exact situation so I can't really comment. Just saying you can't have your cake and eat it too.

Yeah this last guy was back in April. I mean really nice guy and all but I just wasnt feeling it. We just were at different points in our life. He wanted to settle down, I just wanted to date. Everytime he took me out there was no chemistry. Then I guess he knew I was starting to slip away so he tried even harder which was smothering me and started just showing up at my house unannounced to take me out. That was my breaking point so I had to cut him loose. Still on the prowl for the right guy. I do want a relationship.

M3Bahn · 09-27-2011, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Yeah this last guy was back in April. I mean really nice guy and all but I just wasnt feeling it. We just were at different points in our life. He wanted to settle down, I just wanted to date. Everytime he took me out there was no chemistry. Then I guess he knew I was starting to slip away so he tried even harder which was smothering me and started just showing up at my house unannounced to take me out. That was my breaking point so I had to cut him loose. Still on the prowl for the right guy. I do want a relationship.

April?
No wonder you spend so much time here.

Sara · 09-27-2011, 08:29 PM

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Originally Posted by M3Bahn

April?
No wonder you spend so much time here.

haha funny.

Turkeybaster115 · 09-28-2011, 10:28 AM

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Originally Posted by OC 335i

Lot of weak guys are threatened by strong women. I don't mind at all. I think it's attractive. Confidence issues. But at the same time, it's a bit give and take. I don't know your exact situation so I can't really comment. Just saying you can't have your cake and eat it too.

I'm one of those weak guys. I find "strong" chicks, butch, and unattractive. I'm into girly girls, who are concerned about how they look, and are soft, and tender. No GI Jane for me please.

Turkeybaster115 · 09-28-2011, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Yeah this last guy was back in April. I mean really nice guy and all but I just wasnt feeling it. We just were at different points in our life. He wanted to settle down, I just wanted to date. Everytime he took me out there was no chemistry. Then I guess he knew I was starting to slip away so he tried even harder which was smothering me and started just showing up at my house unannounced to take me out. That was my breaking point so I had to cut him loose. Still on the prowl for the right guy. I do want a relationship.

Like how you slowly shifted the blame for the failure of the relationship, solely on the guy. Keep it up, and try not to feel too bad, as the birthdays start piling up.

NYCGP · 09-28-2011, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Turkeybaster115

Like how you slowly shifted the blame for the failure of the relationship, solely on the guy. Keep it up, and try not to feel too bad, as the birthdays start piling up.

wow...

Yeah, I gotta slightly agree with this dude Sara. You say you want a relationship, but you just want to date.

People who are successful in love tend to be able to read signals better than others. I am sure you told him all the things you thought he wanted to hear, but were showing all the signals of how you really felt. Which directly led to him becoming clingy.

Sara · 09-28-2011, 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Turkeybaster115

Like how you slowly shifted the blame for the failure of the relationship, solely on the guy. Keep it up, and try not to feel too bad, as the birthdays start piling up.

yeah youre right. I dont know what I want right now. Im still young(ish), At least thats how I feel as of today. It all may change tomorrow.

M3Bahn · 09-28-2011, 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Turkeybaster115

Like how you slowly shifted the blame for the failure of the relationship, solely on the guy. Keep it up, and try not to feel too bad, as the birthdays start piling up.

He acted too interested and should have been more distant, besides he was interfering with her m3post time.

Uber V8 · 09-28-2011, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Turkeybaster115

I'm one of those weak guys. I find "strong" chicks, butch, and unattractive. I'm into girly girls, who are concerned about how they look, and are soft, and tender. No GI Jane for me please.

I don't think a guy is weak just because they desire a real woman. Only one person "wears the pants" in a relationship. I wear a size 34. Man up.

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Originally Posted by Sara504

yeah youre right. I dont know what I want right now. Im still young(ish), At least thats how I feel as of today. It all may change tomorrow.

Wow.... the first thing that comes to mind when reading this comment is, you're similar to a lemon law buyback GTR for $45k. It's seems like a great deal at the moment, but you'll regret it in the long run.

I still love ya tho, but get ya shit togther girl

Turkeybaster115 · 09-28-2011, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by FwdFtl

I don't think a guy is weak just because they desire a real woman. Only one person "wears the pants" in a relationship. I wear a size 34. Man up.

I'm a size 32. lean up.

Uber V8 · 09-28-2011, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Turkeybaster115

I'm a size 32. lean up.

haha. Sorry too many muscles.

ideliver · 09-28-2011, 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by RedBarron

you guys saying having a girlfriend you get constant vag, this is a total misconception, from my experiences the longer you date someone the less you get unfortunately.

Ur dating the wrong girls or ur a wuss...married 17 yrs..together 20...sex at least 5 of 7 days/week and we have 3 kids

NYCGP · 09-28-2011, 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by ideliver

Ur dating the wrong girls or ur a wuss...married 17 yrs..together 20...sex at least 5 of 7 days/week and we have 3 kids

You're such a gyno... hahah

M3Bahn · 09-28-2011, 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by ideliver

Ur dating the wrong girls or ur a wuss...married 17 yrs..together 20...sex at least 5 of 7 days/week and we have 3 kids

What are you putting in her cereal?

You must know it's very unusual to have that kind of sex frequency after 20yrs, especially after all the crap you deal with/see at work.

silvergray545 · 09-28-2011, 04:47 PM

ideliver is my idol

Uber V8 · 09-28-2011, 05:04 PM

ideliver just inspired me to be pro relationship.

Matter of fact, you need to write a book for us men about all the secrets you've learned from your expertise.

Seriously... write it...

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Javi335 Troll but nice 166 Rep 341 Posts Drives: 335i E92 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Returning videotapes iTrader: (0)	To be or not be? There is life after death? What will the FED do? Single or relationships? I dont about the first, but this a song wich explains very well one of those eternal dilemmas It's because a female I'm going crazy. I can not live without it, but with it either. And if this broken heart left to the grave, do not send me my flowers, as this rumba says : (chorus) I wanted to cut the flower earliest of the rose, thinking because of love I could not be pinch, and as I poked taught me one thing a rose is a rose is a rose And when I opened the hand and dropped it bleeding broken my skin sores and its petals carefully cured me a rose is a rose is a rose ... But the more I heal, after a bit more hurts me, because love is the start of the word bitterness. A lie and a creed for every thorn on the stem, be grafted onto the fingers a rose is a rosary. __________________ There was me, that is Alex, and my three droogs, that is Pete, Georgie, and Dim, and we sat in the Korova Milkbar trying to make up our rassoodocks what to do with the evening. The Korova milkbar sold milk-plus, milk plus vellocet or synthemesc or drencrom, which is what we were drinking. This would sharpen you up and make you ready for a bit of the old ultra-violence. Last edited by Javi335; 09-27-2011 at 05:42 AM..
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