[BellasBmw]

Shes vietnamese..

nikki u got a good point. I have met good people through e90

[shimshimhada]

She probably deaded herself. You guys are going to feel bad, just watch.

[flush01]

Originally Posted by shimshimhada

She probably deaded herself. You guys are going to feel bad, just watch.

whats with you and oranges ?

[E90-4life]

Originally Posted by flush01

whats with you and oranges ?

he's got a fetish. A food fetish.

[magmd]

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

Shes vietnamese..

nikki u got a good point. I have met good people through e90

Yep...you have plenty of people good peeps that have you back here in Socal.

[docbolo]

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

Shes vietnamese..

nikki u got a good point. I have met good people through e90

Yes, where else can you find a leghumping club in your honor??

[BellasBmw]

Yeah at this point i just feel pissed now. Before i was confused, a little worried, paranoid.. now im like F her. Ive seen her sign on AIM so i know she has checked her email. Dude, for her to read that letter i wrote her and not have something to say is pretty fucked up. I guess once again shes too busy to even respond to a friggin email. Is that what the world is coming to... i mean before you had to wait 3 months for a letter, it was difficult to even make a phone call once you left the house- and now people have numerous ways to communicate. CELL phones, whom everyone and their mother owns (for my parents to have a cell phone, that means that EVERYONE has a cell phne ) Email, which i know she checks 341141241x a day, myspace- hey leave a lil comment, whatever.. its bullshit.

[MIKEYMIKE]

Don't even trip...

You got a leg humpin club...who needs that chick?

[BMW F22]

Anger is one way people deal with some situations. Sometimes anger helps us get through things quicker than reminiscing.

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

Yeah at this point i just feel pissed now. Before i was confused, a little worried, paranoid.. now im like F her. Ive seen her sign on AIM so i know she has checked her email. Dude, for her to read that letter i wrote her and not have something to say is pretty fucked up. I guess once again shes too busy to even respond to a friggin email. Is that what the world is coming to... i mean before you had to wait 3 months for a letter, it was difficult to even make a phone call once you left the house- and now people have numerous ways to communicate. CELL phones, whom everyone and their mother owns (for my parents to have a cell phone, that means that EVERYONE has a cell phne ) Email, which i know she checks 341141241x a day, myspace- hey leave a lil comment, whatever.. its bullshit.

[shimshimhada]

Seriously @ some of you guys.

[KennyVendetta]

I am still trying to holla at her though....

[tl_boy]

Bella,

I have found that proximity means nothing. My old best friend lives in Austin, and like i posted before, the same exact thing happened with me. He just stopped "being friends" one day, and didn't respond to emails, (i'd be lucky to get 3-4 words out, like "I've been really busy." thats it. So anyway, he lives in Austin, which is 2.5 hours from Houston, but i talk to my cousin in Canada about every 4 months - more than I talk/communicate with this guy.) I got married 2 years ago, and he didn't even call/communicate a congratulations! Thats pathetic imho. And I had invited him so nicely. After that, I never tried communicating with him... mind you this guy has AIM on his mobile, laptop, desktop, at work, he's logged on 24/7, he's on as we speak. But I haven't clicked on his name for over 2 years...

a million things have run through my mind trying to find out what the reason is. I can't think of anything. I'm even starting to suspect a common friend, a friend who was never as close as the two of us were, but wanted to be (when we were younger, we used to make fun of him). He also grew up with us, but sometimes I wonder if he was telling the other guy sh*t. I don't think guys do those things though, so I doubt it. This other guy tells me he doesn't talk to him either, but I wouldn't know.

it really bothers me since i've been steady friends with this guy from 2 to 19. I'm 28 now.

Does it bother you more than you don't know the circumstances of her behavior than the thought of your friendship breaking off? At this point, my friendship, for all intensive purposes, is over, so it bothers me more that I don't know the circumstances...

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

So.. update...

Ive emailed her, texted her, called her and she isnt returning any of my messages. I didnt sugarcoat the email- i told her straight up that i have no idea why she hasnt tried calling or atleast letting me know what her problems is, IF she even has one. But i find it strange that after all we went through, she doesnt have the decency to explain herself. My other best friend shannon, whom ive known since i was 13, lives up in LA with her boyfriend and goes to Law school- yet we talk atleast 5x a week. Whether it be through IM, Text, Phone..etc. I thought trang was different, i thought we had a solid friendship. If we had a big fight, then atleast there are no mysteries. Even my parents think its unusual since she lived with us for 4 months and helped out at our restaurant.

But if this is how she wants to say goodbye, then i guess so be it. I never would have thought id leave for NY like this. But i guess you never know who your true friends are.

[NaTuReB0Y]

maybe Bella tried to hit on her man........

you know how that goes............arrrrgggghhhhhhh!

[Nikki]

does she smoke weed?

[Squawks]

Originally Posted by Nikki

does she smoke weed?

Hahahah, that came out of nowhere!

But seriously - I predicted before that she was distancing you because you were seeing somebody, something you slightly denied but later admitted (that "football guy from NMSU") and perhaps she felt neglected and is simply returning the favor. Or maybe she's feeling neglected that you have "better" friends from E90Post.

I have some close homies but the simple fact is that I am not their only friend. They have friends too. Sometimes "better" friends that they enjoy hanging out with more often. Sometimes you are considered one of their "better" friends while other times not. I know it sucks but when you have a good friend, you will know (e.g. your law-school homegirl from LA).

[shimshimhada]

Originally Posted by Nikki

does she smoke weed?

[NaTuReB0Y]

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

She's vietnamese..

were you missing any dogs?

[shimshimhada]

Originally Posted by NaTuReB0Y

were you missing any dogs?

Noob, Koreans are known for that.

[ryanmangos]

Originally Posted by shimshimhada

Noob, Koreans are known for that.

PWNED!!!

[BellasBmw]

TL_Boy- Yes im more upset that i dont know the reasons behind her actions. Sure im sad if the friendship is over, but in reality i wouldnt want to be close with someone so fickle anyway.

Nikki- she used to smoke weed, but not anymore. But i never smoke with her or around her.

Squawks- Im not seeing anyone. That football player was here for 10 days, and she knew 2 weeks ahead of time that he would be here. So its not like i ditched her, she was busy with her family also who were visiting.

[Nikki]

People who don't smoke often don't want to be around people who do even if they aren't at the moment. Could be part of it.

[BellasBmw]

Originally Posted by Nikki

People who don't smoke often don't want to be around people who do even if they aren't at the moment. Could be part of it.

Nah im pretty sure that isnt it. Cause she's smoked with me before, plus it never bothered her.