Came home and wife was in our bedroom with another man

JayKay335i · 05-07-2010, 12:58 AM

Peanuto · 05-07-2010, 12:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Dan in PA

My dad is black you jackass.

I call bullshit.

JayKay335i · 05-07-2010, 12:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Peanuto

What happens if a thread get's so politically incorrect the mods don't know what the hell to do?

We were politically correct in OT.

Peanuto · 05-07-2010, 12:59 AM

HAHAHA I thought I was on the random thread not the wife banging dude thread.

Dan in PA · 05-07-2010, 01:00 AM

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Originally Posted by JayKay335i

uh-oh implies that it wasn't on purpose?

Yeah, my conception was an accident. So what.

JayKay335i · 05-07-2010, 01:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Dan in PA

Yeah, my conception was an accident. So what.

Your conception was an accident or your father being black was an accident. I'm so confused.

I my self am black, and I dont know how to feel about this.

Dan in PA · 05-07-2010, 01:03 AM

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Originally Posted by JayKay335i

Your conception was an accident or your father being black was an accident. I'm so confused.

I my self am black, and I dont know how to feel about this.

Conception

JayKay335i · 05-07-2010, 01:05 AM

Gotcha. Its cool dude. The 80s were a crazy time.

Dan in PA · 05-07-2010, 01:11 AM

Actually, I was just trolling

JayKay335i · 05-07-2010, 01:16 AM

Sure. Its cool dude. The 80s were crazy times.

ghosthi32 · 05-07-2010, 01:18 AM

wow you guys are too cool for ot

Dan in PA · 05-07-2010, 01:18 AM

No, really..

I see what you're trying to do

D:

Dan in PA · 05-07-2010, 01:22 AM

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Originally Posted by ghosthi32

wow you guys are too cool for ot

We're waiting for you to get re banned in a blaze of glory...doo it

e92ttaz2 · 05-07-2010, 05:48 AM

Sorry to hear dude. I've been with my girl for 4 years now and she has never cheated on me at all.

Verbiage · 05-07-2010, 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted by sfcu

I am not BS this f'ng story!! This guy is someone who I know and told her I dislike and don't trust and to never let him in my house as they claim to be just "friends". This happened the day after Easter Sunday, April 5. The guy had been to my house before and I told the wife NEVER EVER let him in the house again!!! She says he was there helping her clean the house!!! WTF would I be making this up. I wish I was. I produced the phone records and took it to his superiors, 10-20 calls everyday. Let's just say he works in the church and it is related to to the Vatican scandals. I am not proud to post this info on this forum, but everyone's point-of-view is saying the same thing. Sorry if it sounds like I'm jumping on anyone, but this is killing me.

Sorry man, but this is confirmation that she has been cheating for a while. People aren't sorry that they do things. They are sorry that they get caught. Unless she is the only woman you want to be with, then I suggest leaving her. You have balls for a reason, I'd hope. I have absolutely no tolerance for liars, cheaters, or thieves. Especially in my own house.

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Originally Posted by Dan in PA

Yeah, my conception was an accident. So what.

Mine was too. Parents never married.

elm3 · 05-07-2010, 08:22 AM

I said this before and I'll say it again, CAN'T TRUST WOMEN!!!!

silvergray545 · 05-07-2010, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Bavarian III

Sorry man, but this is confirmation that she has been cheating for a while. People aren't sorry that they do things. They are sorry that they get caught. Unless she is the only woman you want to be with, then I suggest leaving her. You have balls for a reason, I'd hope. I have absolutely no tolerance for liars, cheaters, or thieves. Especially in my own house.

Mine was too. Parents never married.

+1

chungdae · 05-07-2010, 10:52 AM

Moral of the story:
It's both of your faults. It's not "just" her fault and it's not "just" your fault neither. If she was truly happy, she would not be cheating on you. There are other variables involved as well; immaturity, etc. Irregardless of the excuse, it will never be good enough. You will NEVER trust her again, even with counseling, forgiveness, etc. It's time to move on and find who you are again. It's time for you to do things what you've wanted to do since you have been married. Take this as an opportunity as another chance.

What I would do:
Bust in the door with a camera, take pictures, mail them to all her family members and friends, post them on Facebook/Myspace, and humiliate her to the point she moves to another country. That way you can still keep the house and whatever is yours.

BoxerGT2.5 · 05-07-2010, 11:07 AM

I would have slapped her with divorce papers already.

KingOfJericho · 05-07-2010, 11:11 AM

Trust is gone. /relationship

BoxerGT2.5 · 05-07-2010, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by e92ttaz2

Sorry to hear dude. I've been with my girl for 4 years now and she has never cheated on me at all.

That you know of.

sfcu · 05-07-2010, 11:50 AM

The guy's shoes were the first thing I saw when I opened the door to the garage. His keys, wallet, cell phone, everything was there on the kitchen counter and his shirt on the breakfast chair. He was there in the bedroom. The wife did not/could not deny that. I dated my wife for 9 years before we got married. We've been married 8 years now, so I thought I knew her after 17 years. Everything went downhill after she met this priest. I had multiple talks with her and thought I laid down the law, but she was continuing to communicate with him behind my back. I think 99.99% of me is to divorce her, the .01% is that we have a 4-year old daughter in this mess. If it wasn't for my daughter, this shit would have been done and over. Marriage is easy, kids are a different story. I'm not worried about child support since as a man, I have to be a father and take care of my child. I trust NOONE now, just my parents and my daughter!!!

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sfcu New Member 20 Rep 29 Posts Drives: 07 335i Coupe Sil/gray Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Houston, TX iTrader: (1)	The guy's shoes were the first thing I saw when I opened the door to the garage. His keys, wallet, cell phone, everything was there on the kitchen counter and his shirt on the breakfast chair. He was there in the bedroom. The wife did not/could not deny that. I dated my wife for 9 years before we got married. We've been married 8 years now, so I thought I knew her after 17 years. Everything went downhill after she met this priest. I had multiple talks with her and thought I laid down the law, but she was continuing to communicate with him behind my back. I think 99.99% of me is to divorce her, the .01% is that we have a 4-year old daughter in this mess. If it wasn't for my daughter, this shit would have been done and over. Marriage is easy, kids are a different story. I'm not worried about child support since as a man, I have to be a father and take care of my child. I trust NOONE now, just my parents and my daughter!!!
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