You and Your Significant Other

Nkc · 03-04-2016, 06:19 PM

Nef you gotta calm down. Nobody is accusing you of wife beating, tron just saying there's always two sides of it. I doubt you did anything wrong but you do have a way of making a lot of bad decisions. I'll just be nice and call it bad luck.

V1.47fan · 03-04-2016, 06:44 PM

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just to provoke debate:

we only hear and believe one side. this dude could have been a beater and she only wanted to escape. of course he would never tell us that and would rather enjoy some internet pity to help comfort his feeling of loss over a caged bird.

then again, maybe it's all true. the internet will never know.

Just a wild guess...

PoorLurker · 03-04-2016, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by NEFARIOUS

Thanks for the offer; that just so happens to be what I tend to get when I get Taiwanese food!

It's only one of the best restaurants in your neighborhood.

Relationships are an interesting thing. Only two people really know what a relationship is truly like. The two involved as there are emotions and events that have created certain hostilities that third parties will never be able to fully understand. Nor can third parties understand the attachment (or lack thereof) just by listening to stories even if told by the two parties involved.

Source: Google'd it

gtron · 03-04-2016, 07:41 PM

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Then why am I not in jail, especially considering her new BF is a lawyer whose career is to either fuel lawsuits or send people to jail? Also, we used to travel together all the time (mostly HER idea, might I add), and she's had plenty of girls night outings and heads out regularly on her own too (if anything, she's out of the house more than I am since I don't mind chilling at home); not "caged" and has plenty of chances to leave on her own terms (and she definitely did leave the house to go fuck this asshole she's dating), and in actuality, I can't wait to have her shit out of here so that I can move on and date other women like how she decided to date other men. So what the fuck, bro?

Besides, I or most people would be lying if they didn't have the temptation to lift their pimp hand (I'm being completely sarcastic if you can't tell), but I never so much as bitch-slapped a girl even if she deserved it, since there's 2 people that sicken me the most in this world: People who prey on women (rapists and yes, abusive people) and children (I myself was the victim of child abuse and dare not to physically and mentally hurt anyone the same way my narcissistic Cluster B mom hurt me).

Go on, I cordially invite you to look for any scars, lacerations, cuts, bruises or anything on her that can incriminate me, and if you do, I'd take the consequences without blocking a single punch or adding any resistance, because I would have deserved it for being my worst enemy.

Also, ask anybody I know. Thumb through my phone, call any random person or all people in my call logs, including and especially my exes (even her), and I'm willing to bet all the money in my accounts, ownership rights to my car and all my belongings in my apartment, all income for the rest of my life (and just to give you an idea, I'm studying to be an insurance broker and the person that referred me is making 6 figures), and even the clothes off my back (as in if I lose this bet I'll happily humiliate myself) that I have never laid a finger on any woman, not even hitting them back when they've hit me (and my girl before that was a totally hands-on person). If I had a way to have a camera on me 24/7 like the movie "The Truman Show" to prove myself, I happily would.

So, [insert strongest possible insult your mind can conjure since I don't want to get banned over feeding your ignorant comment] for saying that.

level complete.

M3 Number 86 · 03-04-2016, 08:23 PM

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Elaborate? OK. NSFW/TMI WARNING. Since I don't know when was the last time they screwed and after I ate at The Y, and I have no idea what contraceptive that bunghole used (and I pray that it's not NFP like we were doing), so I hope she doesn't have a sperm cell still stuck in her so that I've indirectly swallowed for the motherfucker.

Yes, everything else is going amazingly well, but one critical flaw: Despite being a good friend for many years, sometimes their true personalities come out after dating. She was in a rebound when she met me, I was single for almost 2 years when I met her.

I bought into her front that she shows the world instead of her true character (and believe me, she hid that shit well), which I should've learned my lesson from the last time I dated a girl from China.

Despite the intricate collage, I'm a bit disappointed, but some things were starting to not quite gel since the beginning of last month and I was debating on whether or not to continue the relationship anyway, so her ditching first was actually a bit of a relief since it saved me the trouble of having to rattle off a laundry list of why I wanted to leave her... She criticizes me for doing a late business deal and comes home late, but hangs out and spends the night with her girlfriends all night (or guys, whatever now... But I still hate sleeping alone), started smoking socially (but I quit smoking and can't stand the smell), a few other flaws, plus our chemistry was already starting to fizzle around the beginning of the month and it sharply cut off after her mom went back to China.

Oh, I have something much better. One little fact is that she outstayed her visa, but was allowed to continue on the contingency of working. However, she hasn't held a job since November. So, let's just say that after I pull a few strings and if they want to continue that relationship, it'll have to be long distance. Also, I'm waiting until this motherfucker comes around (so far they haven't and I don't have a clue where she hangs out nowadays); I have a 3-foot copper pipe in the garage with his name on it.

Instead of doing all this, I suggest you to move on. Not worth the consequences and having you regret doing something you shouldn't have done with a clear mind.

That's some pussy shit. Revenge is always the answer. Closure.

Adamrt · 03-05-2016, 06:16 AM

I think this thread has gone a wee bit off course !!!

1MOREMOD · 03-05-2016, 09:57 AM

Millenium Biltmore

Adamrt · 03-05-2016, 10:00 AM

Those security guards behind you arent looking to happy!

1MOREMOD · 03-05-2016, 10:01 AM

Yeah told them they were pussies and I do what I like, they agreed.

Adamrt · 03-05-2016, 01:29 PM

[QUOTE=infamousdiz;19485772]before

Even the kid is looking at her boobs !

Axius · 03-05-2016, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Nkc

Nef you gotta calm down. Nobody is accusing you of wife beating, tron just saying there's always two sides of it. I doubt you did anything wrong but you do have a way of making a lot of bad decisions. I'll just be nice and call it bad luck.

Doesn't matter if you say this, it's still going to be the same repetition.

Everyone is in control of their own future, we only get his side of the story on anything, and it always feels like a damn elaborate pity party and it's getting old.

Kong Sheng Han · 03-06-2016, 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Millenium Biltmore

So vascular!

1MOREMOD · 03-06-2016, 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Kong Sheng Han

So vascular!

Ty, should see when I do arms and take NO stimulator

Kong Sheng Han · 03-06-2016, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Ty, should see when I do arms and take NO stimulator

Pics?

I'm not really vascular, but I swear vascularity increased a little after I started taking fish oils.

1MOREMOD · 03-06-2016, 08:17 PM

Can't really load any pic size is weird on phone.

UncleWede · 03-07-2016, 10:39 AM

Started to worry you were having a bad reaction to the booze.

1MOREMOD · 03-07-2016, 10:42 AM

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Started to worry you were having a bad reaction to the booze.

Booze is my secret weapon.

UncleWede · 03-07-2016, 11:06 AM

I didn't fair so well, mixing Jack and Madera after back/bi and swimming

1LRM3 · 03-09-2016, 06:22 AM

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Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Booze is my secret weapon.

thought your biceps were

jtodd_fl · 03-09-2016, 07:22 AM

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Originally Posted by 1LRM3

thought your biceps were

Like for many people, it is the combination of alcohol and muscles that really makes him invincible.

1MOREMOD · 03-09-2016, 08:29 AM

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thought your biceps were

? Yeah they are small

jtodd_fl · 03-09-2016, 02:34 PM

grimlock asked me to post this for him, because he is too shy. Here are him and his SO.

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Nkc NOOB 1607 Rep 1,356 Posts Drives: Cars Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: @BMWclassicdivision iTrader: (0)	Nef you gotta calm down. Nobody is accusing you of wife beating, tron just saying there's always two sides of it. I doubt you did anything wrong but you do have a way of making a lot of bad decisions. I'll just be nice and call it bad luck.
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