I think I am dating a racist

lopealle · 09-01-2010, 12:48 AM

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Originally Posted by joonsup

korean girls are known to get a little crazy so watch out for that. plus most korean girls are more traditional than non korean asian girls from my past experiences. She seems like the type of girl that if you marry you will always have bop and kimchee on the table after you get back from work. good luck

you are totally forgetting the bulgogi,yakimandu,and ramyeon. and korean girls are far from racist. when i was stationed there they were very friendly and me and my friends would hang out with some of the college students. and dont forget when korean women get old they turn into pimps. atleast they do in gwangju.

samwoo2go · 09-01-2010, 03:00 AM

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Originally Posted by OC 335i

What if you live in Korea town? Embracing is a two way street though. Perhaps they feel alienated and not welcomed by White people? Racism is a lot less prevalent today but I was not welcomed by a lot of White people in Elementary School and Jr. High. In fact, I was called racist names in tons of occasions in P.E. and not many of my white friends stood up for me. You have to walk in another man's shoes before you can judge.

Again, I moved out of the mostly Asian areas while in HS and I had plenty of white friends, especially because I was in sports. As I grew older, I had more and more Asian friends. Why? Because that's what we share a lot of common beliefs and culture.

Dare I say it, culture is more important to Asians than your typical white person. I AGREE that it is beneficial to be more well rounded but assimilate? That is a horrible choice of wording.

Some people choose to surround themselves by their own race, that's fine, it's a free country for a reason. Go tell that guy from Nebraska to move to Los Angeles where there's more of a melting pot then.

+100000000000

c0nstant · 09-01-2010, 03:03 AM

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Originally Posted by samwoo2go

+100000000000

you are literally racist

samwoo2go · 09-01-2010, 05:35 AM

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Originally Posted by jh valley

you are literally racist

I never hate unless being hated on first. so think what you want, but lets not get this thread closed.

graider · 09-01-2010, 10:40 AM

people have choices, they can stick to whatever community they want to join the mix race cultures. i have no issue with that whatsoever IMO.

aus · 09-01-2010, 10:43 AM

OP needs to grow the F up.
You're suppose to worry about getting laid, not what the chick thinks.
People like to hang with their own kind. NOT A BIG DEAL.
You should just worry about getting laid.

Comet · 09-01-2010, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by aus

OP needs to grow the F up.
You're suppose to worry about getting laid, not what the chick thinks.
People like to hang with their own kind. NOT A BIG DEAL.
You should just worry about getting laid.

perhaps you should do the growing up..
Mature people don't date girls because they are "so hots brah, I needz her to be my tube sock!!"

Joonsup · 09-01-2010, 11:05 AM

i think everyone agrees that before any further discussion a pic of the girl is required

chungdae · 09-01-2010, 11:34 AM

I'm Korean myself and prefer to date outside my race. Actually, I haven't dated a Asian girl since I was 16; nine years ago. I've dated Brazilian's, Cuban's, Colombian's, Peruvian's, etc practically everything and truthfully I prefer to go outside my culture. We live in America for a reason might as well enjoy it.

OC Guy · 09-01-2010, 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by chungdae

I'm Korean myself and prefer to date outside my race. Actually, I haven't dated a Asian girl since I was 16; nine years ago. I've dated Brazilian's, Cuban's, Colombian's, Peruvian's, etc practically everything and truthfully I prefer to go outside my culture. We live in America for a reason might as well enjoy it.

Sounds like you are enjoying South America, not North America.

Well I suppose Cuba is N. America.

But definitely not the USA.

chungdae · 09-01-2010, 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by OC 335i

Sounds like you are enjoying South America, not North America.

Well I suppose Cuba is N. America.

But definitely not the USA.

What can I say? I love Hispanic women! I've dated several white girls as well, but Hispanic women I enjoy the most.

c0nstant · 09-01-2010, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by samwoo2go

I never hate unless being hated on first. so think what you want, but lets not get this thread closed.

whatever you say

wuzupfoo · 09-01-2010, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by OC 335i

Not all Koreans but Koreans tend to be one of the most ethnocentric asian races out there. Especially those who hang around all Koreans. The Koreans I get along with tend to mix with all types of crowds.

Ppl are either being pc or not posting. Simple answer is SHE'S KOREAN! Korea the best!

Thats the truth! coming from a 1.5er (ie born in Korea, grew up here) so I got a lot of the traditional thinking while I was growing up, so no need to bash, im just stating my observations. Though it really depends on how assimilated one is, i consider myself pretty american but the more FOB they are the more this comes through, though it seems whites typically are not included in hate, its just everyone else.

Inspired · 09-01-2010, 08:20 PM

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Originally Posted by chungdae

I'm Korean myself and prefer to date outside my race. Actually, I haven't dated a Asian girl since I was 16; nine years ago. I've dated Brazilian's, Cuban's, Colombian's, Peruvian's, etc practically everything and truthfully I prefer to go outside my culture. We live in America for a reason might as well enjoy it.

What about black?

JayKay335i · 09-01-2010, 09:53 PM

I love pale ass white chicks. My asian friend calls their nipples HIDs because I'm not a fan of brown nips.

chungdae · 09-02-2010, 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by twinturbo335

What about black?

Well, my girlfriend's grandparents were half black. Maybe that doesn't count?

SoCali E36 · 09-02-2010, 04:45 AM

I'm Racist

samwoo2go · 09-02-2010, 05:37 AM

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Originally Posted by SoCali E90

I'm Racist

I'm Ricest

MadDog · 09-02-2010, 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by SoCali E90

I'm Racist

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Originally Posted by samwoo2go

I'm Ricest

I'm Nicest.

UltimateBMW · 09-02-2010, 09:46 AM

People just need to learn there is a difference between preference and hate.

Preference does not make you a racist.

graider · 09-03-2010, 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by UltimateBMW

People just need to learn there is a difference between preference and hate.

Preference does not make you a racist.

I agree.

Hedges · 09-03-2010, 07:28 PM

Korean girl? Nuff said....

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